30th birthday party need help wording invite?

Im turning 30 in 2 months and planning something semi big, I thought it would be a good idea to have everyone meet for dinner at a restaurant and given how expensive things are these day I'd have everyone pay their own way. I'm also having an after party where I'll be providing all the drinks and chips and dips, veggie trays...I figure I'd rather spend more money on drinks than a load of food. Good idea or not? I want to word the invitation correctly. Any ideas on how to word its? Restaurant for dinner then after party with drinks and DJ. Thanks and if you all have any other ideas please let me know. My colors are hot pink and a pear green. Im a girly girl so I love pink, lol.