Why do mothers cause problems for their children?

at a certain age, even parents start getting irritated by kids who live with them for too long. or who are dependent for too long. you need to 1) get out of her house if you still live with her. 2) be financially and emotionally independent. 3) stop telling her about your personal life, friends, boyfriends, problems, mental issues or depression. 4) set a date and time to meet her once a month at the most and don't talk too much on the phone either. most importantly be independent so that nothing anyone says or does matter to you any more. good luck